Life can be delightfully unpredictable at times. Grab car keys and library books - check. Get son to Chess Club meeting on time - check. Become part of random film student's final project - um, check??
Coffeehouses - the Denny's of the next generation, but even more prevalent. My fellow Gen-Xers and I spent our youth in the back booths of Denny's; crammed together in groups of five, or ten, laughing and gaming in a swirling nicotine haze, stretching that unlimited-refill cup of coffee until five in the morning and generally annoying the hell out of the waitresses (you had to tip well). Today's kids have the coffeehouses...but unlike Denny's, they have spread and multiplied to ridiculous proportions. You wouldn't see three Denny's restaurants in a one-block area. You wouldn't see a Denny's booth at the grocery store. Or in the library.
Not that coffeehouses are a new phenomenon, I know. They've enjoyed a certain counterculture appeal since the 60's, and I confess I also passed quite a few youthful evenings in them...usually real hole-in-the-wall joints, furnished with aging overstuffed couches and filled with music and smoke and students playing chess and carrying on all sorts of discussions. But these coffeehouses are bright, clean and corporate - upscale smoke-free establishments with wireless Internet access catering to quiet students individually absorbed in their laptops. Not that there's anything wrong with that, I guess...but it's a different universe.
Ah, but I digress. Time to veer away from the "kids today" speech, because frankly I sound old.
I am a coffee addict, but I am not a fan of the contemporary coffeehouse. Still, Duncan was now engaged in his chess battles, and I had forgotten my customary mug o' coffee from home, so I popped over to the little coffeeshop in the library. I had been in line for a minute or two when a woman approached the counter, identifying herself as a film student, and asked the employee if she could film him making the coffee. Oh, and could she film me buying the coffee? And interview me about coffee? Well, why not!
And boy, she wasn't kidding. She disappeared briefly, and returned with lighting equipment, tripod and camera. She even miked me. And so I sat and sipped my overpriced coffee, casually answering questions about why I like coffee, my coffee drinking habits and frequency, what brands of coffee I favor. After regaling her tales of my all-day addiction and my Zen love of the percolating pot and the ritual of preparing and sipping coffee, I think she was surprised to hear that my favorite coffee is "the cheapest". But really, I'm a gourmand, not a gourmet. With all the sugar and creamer I pour in there, it really doesn't matter too much anyway. Spider Robinson would disavow my existence for saying that.
The funniest part? I hadn't exactly left the house planning to be filmed. The coffee-phile she interviewed in that brightly lit yuppie nook appeared in geek glasses, burgundy hair askew, pentacle necklace and a Beatles' Rubber Soul shirt. A relic of the 'classic' coffeehouse if I've ever seen one.
The Department of Veterans' Affairs has finally agreed to add the pentacle to their list of acceptable religious symbols on gravestones in national cemeteries!
The dirtiest comment I've heard all week came unwittingly from the mouth of a sweet young man who looked like a church counselor.
After my shift, I was sitting at the computer in the lunch office trying to make the figures reconcile when the janitor dropped by and set a chocolate shake on the desk for me. Each Friday, the kids have the additional option of buying shakes, and at the end of lunch the janitor divvies up the leftovers.
At some point, a clean-cut, rather handsome young man (administration of some sort, I think) dropped by and was doing some computer work on the cashier terminals out in the cafeteria. He came into the office seeking a pen, and mistaking my cup for a pen/pencil holder, he reached around the monitor, dipped his hand into my shake and pulled back startled, getting chocolate shake everywhere! We had a good laugh about it, and I helped him clean it up. A few minutes later my fellow cashier passed by and said, "Oh, I'm sorry...have you met our new cashier?"
"Oh yes," he replied, flustered. "I got acquainted with her a few minutes ago when I stuck my fingers in her shake."
I received an e-mail today letting me know that I have been accepted into the course of study with the Coven of the Far Flung Net, an online coven of Universal Eclectic Wicca. I considered a few other traditions, but I felt really comfortable here and so I put in an application. Boy, they made me work for it! My application involved, among other things, a 1,500 word limit essay incorporating a current event and Wiccan ethics. I worked on it far into the night and then some more the next day, picking at it and rewording and editing...then spent the next week picking at my Outlook Express, hoping for news. ;-P
I look forward to beginning...I have been reading of course, on my own, but it will be nice to have a mentor, to have topics of research and discussion, to argue and to question, and perhaps to find my place.
In other news...it is finally starting to warm up! We had a freak cold spell...after weeks of warm weather that culminated in a balmy 87-degree day, the temperature dropped SIXTY DEGREES in twenty-four hours and we had several days of snow. My plants died. *sniff* But today was light jacket weather, the spring air smelled divine, my yard was filled with birds and everything just feels Right With The World.
Written piecemeal over several years, this is for the greatest love in my life, who is frustrating, loving, stubborn, funny, sarcastic, intelligent, argumentative, and my reason for getting up the morning. It's kinda folk/country style, but I'm afraid ye'll have to settle for just the lyrics. ^_^
The Cookie Jar
You changed my life before I even met youI don't know where we go from hereBut come what may you know I'll never leave youSo honey put away your tears This is new to me so please be patientI'm bound to make mistakes along the wayI know I'm not perfect but I'm tryingSo let's just take this day by day Before you came along I never knewJust how much I wanted youAnd now I'd do, anything to see you through I will slay the monsters lurking underneath your bedAnd I'll be right behind you on whatever path you treadAnd when you need someone to comfort you, you know I always willAnd I will always keep the cookie jar filled Now you're growing up, so independentI can't believe how much you've grownAnd though I wish that we could stay this way foreverSomeday you'll stand on your own I never met a child so open-heartedI know you'll be a fine young manYou don't have to be the best at everything, honey,You just do the best you can And though I can only guide to as you growUntil it's time for you to goWell even so, I really hope you'll always know That I'll still slay the monsters lurking underneath your bedAnd I'll always provide you with a place to rest your headAnd if the whole world seems against you, boy, you know I'll be there stillAnd I will always keep the cookie jar filled